bool ctcphandler::getctcp(const usermessage u){
    if (u.msg().startsWith("away")) {
        if (!awayusers.contains(u.user(), Qt::CaseInsensitive)){
            awayusers << u.user();
            foreach(chatwindow *w, ::window::chatwindows){
                if(w->chatpartner == u.user()){
                    w->setaway(1,u.msg());
                    break;
                }
            }
        }
    } else if (u.msg()=="back") {